Do It Afraid Because God Will Not Forsake You: Embracing Courage through Faith

The idea for this topic came to me while I was reading a devotional by Sadie Robertson Huff called The Next Step. In her writing, she shared a powerful story about how she traveled to Somalia with her mom and Bob Goff for mission work. This journey took place despite warnings from the U.S. State Department, which explicitly advised against traveling to Somalia due to safety concerns. Sadie described some of the dangerous moments they faced during their trip—moments that tested their nerves and challenged their faith. She explained that although there were times filled with fear and uncertainty, these were more than balanced out by the moments of grace, hope, and deep connection they experienced. These moments of joy and purpose made every scary situation worth facing, transforming their perspective on risk and faith. Her story highlights how stepping outside our comfort zone often involves facing fears that seem overwhelming at first, but can lead to incredible growth and unforgettable lessons.

Fear is something everyone encounters at some point in life. It sneaks into our minds when we face hard choices or consider trying something new. Sometimes, the fear appears as a whisper of doubt, telling us we might fail. At other times, it feels like a loud shout telling us to back down. But as people of faith, we are called to go beyond these feelings. We are told that fear does not have the final say. When we trust in God's promises, we can find the strength to keep going, even when our hearts tremble. Fear doesn't need to hold us back if we lean on God's Word. It reminds us that God is always with us, no matter how tough things become. He promises to never leave our side, no matter how dark the path seems. His presence gives us courage that we didn’t think we had.

Understanding the power of God's promises can help us face fears head-on. For example, many Christians find reassurance in verses like Isaiah 41:10, which encourages us not to be afraid because God is with us. These words bring comfort and strength during situations that seem overwhelming. They remind us that we're never truly alone. When we step out to try something new, speak up for what is right, or follow God's calling into unfamiliar territory, we often feel nervous or unsure. These feelings are natural. But choosing to trust God's plans over our fears opens a door to unseen strength. Every story of faith, big or small, shows that trusting God can turn intimidating moments into opportunities for growth. Fear often whispers that we’re not enough or that we might fail. God’s Word counters that lie, reminding us of our worth and His power working through us.

In the end, facing fears isn’t about ignoring them. It's about moving forward despite them. It’s about holding tight to God's truths and refusing to let fear dictate our decisions. If Sadie’s story teaches us anything, it’s that big adventures—whether traveling to distant lands or stepping into new roles—are often born from moments when fear threatens to shut us down. Choosing faith over fear isn’t easy, but it’s powerful. It transforms tough moments into stepping stones of faith and hope. When we trust in God's promises, we unlock a quiet strength within us, allowing us to walk through fear into the freedom of His grace. Fear becomes less of a barrier and more of a reminder that we are never alone in our journey.

The Biblical Foundation of Courage in the Face of Fear

Recognizing God’s Promises of Never Forsaking You

Throughout the Bible, God promises to be with His people. When fear tries to hold you back, remember these truths:

• Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”
• Joshua 1:9 encourages us, “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
• Isaiah 41:10 offers comfort: “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”

These promises are the foundation of our courage. They serve as reminders that God’s presence is constant, no matter how scary things seem.

Jesus’ Affirmation to His Disciples

Jesus told His followers they would never be alone. In Matthew 28:20, He assures them, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” This promise means that His help and companionship are always near. Believers today can hold onto this truth when fear whispers doubts to their hearts.

Examples of Scripture Characters Who Faced Fear and Obeyed God

Many biblical heroes faced moments of uncertainty but still obeyed God. Moses hesitated at the burning bush, yet he stepped out in faith. Queen Esther took a huge risk, trusting God's plan to save her people. David faced Goliath—an impossible giant—trusting that God’s power was bigger than any fear. Their stories remind us that God strengthens us when we step out in obedience.

Why It’s Important to Act Even When Afraid

Faith as Action in Spite of Fear

Faith isn’t about being fearless; it’s about trusting God even when you feel afraid. When Peter stepped onto the water, he looked at Jesus and climbed out of the boat. His courage grew as he focused on Christ, not his fear.

The Power of Obedience and Courage in Spiritual Growth

Overcoming fear by acting on faith helps us develop spiritually. Every step of obedience builds our confidence and deepens our relationship with God. Leaders and believers who face fears often grow stronger and more mature in faith.

The Consequences of Fear-Driven Inaction

When fear keeps us from acting, we miss chances to grow, serve, or witness. The Bible warns about fear leading to missed blessings and stagnation. Spiritually, fear can hold us back from reaching our full potential in Christ.

Practical Steps to "Do It Afraid" with Divine Confidence

Prayer and Meditation on God’s Promises

Start by praying and asking God for courage. Meditate on Scriptures like Psalm 23 or Isaiah 41:10, repeating them to settle your mind and build trust.

Building Courage through Faith Practices

Connect with other believers through church, prayer groups, or worship. Fasting, singing praises, and reading the Word make your faith muscles stronger.

Taking Small, Faith-Filled Steps

Don’t try to do everything at once. Break your goal into tiny steps. Noah built the ark step by step, and Peter took small steps on the water before sinking. Small actions build confidence over time.

Overcoming Negative Thoughts and Fear-Based Narratives

Replace fear-driven thoughts with faith declarations. Say things like, “God is with me,” or “He will give me strength.” Romans 12:2 reminds us to renew our minds and focus on God's truth.

Real-World Examples of Doing It Afraid with Divine Assurance

Biblical Examples

David faced Goliath—a giant no one dared confront. He trusted God's power more than his fear. Esther risked her life, trusting God’s purpose. Their stories show courage in action, rooted in divine trust.

Modern-Day Examples

Today, many believers stand strong in difficult situations—leading ministries, speaking out for justice, or stepping into new roles—all despite fears. I think about the September 11th terrorist attacks and the phrase "Let's Roll" that came from the actions of everyday people who took heroic actions during one of the plane crashes. Their stories prove that trusting God's promises gives us strength in tough moments.

Wrap-Up

Fear is part of life, but we’re not alone in facing it. The Bible shows us God’s promises He will never forsake us. Acting in faith, even when scared, allows us to grow spiritually and fulfill God's purpose. Start with small steps, seek support, and meditate on His Word. Remember, doing it afraid is part of our journey. God's presence empowers us to take bold actions, turning fears into opportunities for faith. Trust in His unwavering love and step forward today—with courage rooted in divine assurance.

Marriage with Different Interests: Navigating Love & Compatibility

Another weekend, another scout event.  My husband is gone and I'm at home doing chores that went undone during the work week. After breakfast and getting laundry into the dryer, I walked my son's absentee ballot to the post office. I observe a couple on the other side of the street; possibly a husband & wife, walking together, talking and drinking coffee. I feel a pang of jealousy but then I remember "God's Will not Mine" and decide to mind my own business.

Many couples find themselves in relationships where their hobbies and passions don’t quite match. For us, we started out with similar interests but have grown apart. These differences can cause frustration but can also make a relationship richer. Understanding and respecting these diverging interests are key to a healthy marriage. 

The Dynamics of Different Interests in Marriage

Understanding the Roots of Diverging Interests

People develop hobbies based on their personalities, upbringing, and life experiences. For example, growing up watching sports can make someone passionate about games, while an interest in painting could come from family influence. Over time, interests may change or deepen, especially during marriage. One partner might discover new hobbies, or circumstances might shift priorities.

Our marriage shifted once our son was old enough to join scouts.  Since that time, my husband has gone "all in" with scouting and pretty much does nothing else with the exception of monthly IDPA matches. If we have time together, it is eating dinner at home after work and maybe watching some TV.

Couples often have contrasting interests, which isn’t a problem if they understand where these passions come from. For instance, a person who grew up in an artsy household might cherish creative pursuits, while their partner prefers outdoor activities. These roots shape how people view and enjoy their hobbies today.

While I do my best to support my husband's love for scouting, it's not something that we can do together because a lot of what he does are things that have developed since his youth. My husband has no interest in powerlifting and will not be attending my first powerlifting meet because the folks at Xpand Your Limits did not consult with the Order of the Arrow before scheduling their event.  My husband will only show up if I get hurt since he is my emergency contact.

Strategies for Balancing Different Interests

Effective Communication and Active Listening

Open and honest dialogue about hobbies is essential. Avoid judging or dismissing your partner’s passions. Instead, ask questions and listen actively to understand what makes their interests special. For example, ask, “What do you enjoy most about this hobby?”

Set aside regular times for “interest-sharing” conversations. During these talks, each person can explain their hobbies and what they get from them. This creates mutual respect and helps partners feel heard.

Creating Shared Experiences

Find activities both partners enjoy. Thing is, not everything has to be identical. You can attend a game together, even if one person loves playing and the other prefers watching. It’s about finding common ground while honoring individual passions.

At this point, we have not been able to explore creating shared experiences because my husband is so involved in scouting.  While I could complain about it, I try not to as my husband's passion helps young people learn life skills that help them live a better life.

Respecting and Supporting Individual Passions

Supporting each other's hobbies is vital. Give each other time and space to pursue personal interests without feeling guilty. Celebrate wins or milestones, whether it's completing a marathon or finishing a painting.  We haven't quite gotten the hang of this yet.  The last time I was excited about achieving a personal best with my back squat, my husband criticized that it took me two years to get to that point.

Set boundaries to make sure personal time isn’t taken for granted. Respecting personal space allows both partners to stay connected with themselves while nurturing the relationship.

Compromising Without Sacrificing Core Values

Finding middle ground is often necessary. If one partner prefers quiet nights at home and the other loves going out, compromise could be a mix of both. Keep in mind, healthy compromise doesn’t mean sacrificing what matters most. It means creating solutions everyone can live with.

Recognize when compromise turns into resentment. If a partner continually gives up core interests, it might lead to frustration. Balance is about being flexible without losing your sense of self.

Maintaining Personal Identity and Growth

The Role of Self-Development

Personal pursuits outside the marriage are important. Encouraging your partner to try new hobbies or pursue passions keeps the relationship fresh. For instance, if one partner takes up a new hobby, they can share their journey with the other.

Being individuals with unique interests can boost confidence and satisfaction in marriage. It prevents the relationship from becoming too dependent on shared activities alone.

Avoiding Enmeshment or Overdependence

Watch for signs of losing yourself. If hobbies or routines become all-consuming, it might harm your personal identity. Maintaining independence involves setting aside time for your interests and friendships outside marriage.

Psychologists emphasize that healthy couples respect each other’s autonomy. It’s not about being separate all the time but about keeping your individuality alive.  Our marriage is definitely autonomous.  Outside of dinner and TV, we are generally apart.

Conflict Resolution and Managing Frustrations

Common Conflict Triggers and How to Address Them

Many disagreements stem from misunderstandings about how hobbies affect daily life. One partner might feel ignored or overwhelmed. To address this, use “I” statements like “I feel upset when we don’t spend time together.”  This is hard and is an area I personally want to work on so I can eventually have a meaningful conversation with my husband about finding a way to spend time together.

Avoid blaming or criticizing. Instead, focus on expressing your feelings calmly and listening to your partner’s perspective. Clear communication reduces conflicts and builds trust.

The Importance of Patience and Flexibility

Every passion takes time, and sometimes routines need to change. Patience is vital. If one partner isn’t interested in a hobby, try to be understanding and patient.

Practicing flexibility means adjusting plans or routines to fit both partners’ needs. Real stories show that couples who adapt and stay open-minded are more likely to succeed in managing interest differences.

I wanted to share a resource from Guideposts: 5 Steps to a Healthy Marriage which has some helpful tips for you and me to improve our marriages.

Wrap-Up

This blog post was hard to write as it surfaced some painful feelings but if I help someone by being vulnerable, it is worth it.  When my husband and I first drifted apart, I drank to numb my feelings.  I am blessed that I no longer do that.  Rather, I have great friends who support me and I have also come to appreciate solitude without feeling lonely. You can read my post about solitude versus loneliness here.

Balancing different interests in a marriage requires effort, respect, and understanding. Communication, shared experiences, and support create a strong foundation. Remember, diverging hobbies don’t have to divide you. Instead, they can bring new energy and depth into your relationship.

The secret is to embrace individuality while building a shared life. When couples work together to respect each other’s passions and boundaries, their bond becomes more resilient. Love isn’t about shared hobbies alone — it’s about sharing respect for each other’s unique paths. Building a marriage around these principles keeps both partners happy, fulfilled, and connected for years to come.

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Start Where You Are: How to Use What You Have and Do What You Can

Thinking about big goals but feeling overwhelmed? You’re not alone. Many believe success needs

perfect conditions or a lot of money. That’s not true. Small steps, taken often, matter more than giant leaps from the start. When you begin from where you are, use what’s already in your hands, and do what’s possible today, obstacles seem less impossible. This post was inspired by an Arthur Ashe from grateful.org and shows how you can reach your dreams without waiting for ideal circumstances.

We often wait for the perfect time, the perfect resources, or the perfect plan before we take action. But here’s a secret: there is no perfect. Life unfolds in motion, not in waiting rooms.

Imagine an artist with only a pencil and scrap paper. She could sit back and say, “I’ll create once I have the perfect paints, the right canvas, and a sunlit studio.” But what if her best masterpiece begins with that simple pencil? Greatness often starts small.

“Start where you are” is permission to stop wishing for a different beginning. Whether you’re in a tiny apartment, a bustling city, or a quiet corner of life’s challenges, that’s your launching pad. You don’t need a better place—you need a brave first step.

“Use what you have” reminds us that your resources, though they may seem limited, are enough. Your voice, your perspective, your skills—these are tools. They may not look flashy, but in your hands, they hold possibility. Think of a cook who whips up a comforting meal from leftovers. Beauty and creativity thrive in resourcefulness.

And then comes the magic: “Do what you can.” Not everything, not perfection, not superhuman feats—just what you can, today. One page written, one call made, one seed planted. Progress loves consistency more than intensity.

When you combine these three truths, life feels less overwhelming. You don’t need to leap tall buildings; you only need to climb one stair. Small acts, multiplied over time, create powerful change.

So—don’t wait. Start here. Use your now. Do your best. And trust that each step forward carries more weight than standing still.

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Facing the Unknown: How to Find Strength Within

Ever feel like you're walking into a dark room? Maybe you lost your job, got scary news from the doctor, or had to move suddenly. That uneasy feeling? It's the unknown. But guess what? You've got a superpower inside: inner strength. This article will give you simple ways to find that strength and face anything.

The Fear of Uncertainty: Evolutionary Roots

Fear of the unknown is old like cavemen! Back then, knowing what was up meant staying alive. A rustle in the bushes? Friend or foe? Our brains still look for patterns and get jumpy when they're missing. Think of it as your brain's way of trying to keep you safe, even if the "threat" is just a new job. People show this "uncertainty avoidance" in different ways. Some get super planned, while others freeze.

Negative Biases That Amplify Fear

Our brains play tricks on us. "Negativity bias" means we focus more on bad stuff than good. If you're starting a new project, you might obsess over what could go wrong, not what could be amazing. "Confirmation bias" makes us look for info that backs up our fears, making things worse. It's like searching the internet for symptoms when you're sick – you'll always find the worst-case scenario.

Reframing Uncertainty: Opportunity vs. Threat

Here's a mind trick: The unknown isn't always bad. It could be a chance to learn, grow, or discover something awesome. Try to flip the script. Instead of "I might fail," think "I might learn something new." This switch, called cognitive reframing, can turn anxiety into excitement. See that new job as a challenge to learn, not a threat to your comfort.

Identifying Your Core Values

What really matters to you? Is it honesty, kindness, creativity, or adventure? Knowing your core values is like having a compass in a storm. When things get confusing, your values can guide you. How do you find them? Think about times you felt really good about yourself. What were you doing? What values did it show? List those values, then narrow them down to your top 3-5.

Recognizing Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Be real with yourself. What are you good at? What's tough for you? Knowing this helps you make smart choices and ask for help when you need it. Maybe you're great at solving problems but bad at public speaking. Own it! Focus on using your strengths and find ways to get better at your weaknesses.

Cultivating Self-Compassion

Be kind to yourself, especially when things get hard. Self-compassion means treating yourself like you'd treat a good friend. Don't beat yourself up over mistakes. Learn from them, forgive yourself, and move on.

Mindfulness and Meditation

Mindfulness is paying attention to the present moment without judging it. Meditation is a tool to help you do that. It's like a reset button for your brain. Even a few minutes a day can lower anxiety and help you stay calm. Try this: Sit quietly, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. When your mind wanders, gently bring it back to your breath. There are free apps that can teach you how to meditate.

Goal Setting and Action Planning

Feeling lost? Set some goals. Even small ones can give you a sense of control. Break big goals into smaller steps. Instead of "Write a book," think "Write one page today." Action planning makes the unknown feel less scary. You can take charge when you feel like you're doing something.

Building a Supportive Network

Don't go it alone! Talk to friends, family, or a therapist. Having people who care about you can make a huge difference. Share your fears and ask for advice. Sometimes, just talking about it helps. Nurture those relationships. Make time for people who lift you.

The Power of a Growth Mindset

Do you think your abilities are fixed, or can you grow? People with a "growth mindset" believe they can learn and improve. They see challenges as chances to get better. If you mess up, don't say "I'm just not good at this." Say, "I'll try a different way next time."  I have to do this a lot! 

Letting Go of Control

You can't control everything. Trying to will only make you stressed. Focus on what you can control: your attitude, your effort, and your actions. Learn to accept things you can't change. Acceptance isn't giving up; it's freeing yourself to focus on what matters.

Embracing Imperfection

Nobody's perfect. Mistakes happen. Instead of dwelling on them, learn from them. See them as stepping stones to success. It's okay to not have all the answers. It's okay to stumble. The key is to get back up and keep going.

Wrap-Up

Facing the unknown can be scary, but you're stronger than you think. By understanding your fears, knowing yourself, and using practical strategies, you can handle anything. Inner strength is like a muscle: The more you use it, the stronger it gets. Take small steps. Be kind to yourself. Embrace the unknown with courage. What's one thing you can do today to build your inner strength?

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Easter Traditions: Unwrapping the History, Symbolism, and Celebrations

Easter! It's a holiday filled with bright colors, yummy treats, and fun traditions. But it's way more than just bunnies and eggs. Let's explore the cool history behind Easter. We'll find out where these customs came from. Get ready to see how Easter brings people together all over the world.

What is the true meaning behind the Easter holiday?

Ever wonder where the word "Easter" comes from? Some say it's linked to old spring festivals. These festivals celebrated new life. Easter also has a big Christian meaning. It's all about celebrating Jesus' resurrection.

The Resurrection of Jesus: The Cornerstone of Easter

For Christians, Easter is super important. It celebrates Jesus coming back to life. This event is called the resurrection. It's a key belief in Christianity. The Bible tells the story of Jesus' resurrection. It shows why Easter is such a special day for Christians.  My husband serves the Easter Vigil Mass (the 2-3 hour service) with the Knights of Columbus every year.  

The Easter Bunny

Where did the Easter Bunny come from? It's a fun symbol of Easter. It's all about new life and being fertile. Different cultures have their own stories about the Easter Bunny. Let's hop into the history of this furry friend.

In the 1700s, German people came to America. They brought the Easter Bunny with them. These people were called the Pennsylvania Dutch. The Easter Bunny tradition grew in the United States thanks to them.

Egg-related Traditions

Eggs are a big part of Easter. They stand for new life and rebirth. Decorating eggs is an old tradition. There are also fun games you can play with eggs.  Having an adult son who is graduating college and preparing to be married, we haven't colored Easter eggs or hid Easter eggs in our home. I suppose hiding eggs with $20 bills or gift cards could be fun. I'm sure no one would object to finding Kit-Kats or Reese eggs either!

Easter Food Traditions

Easter is a time for yummy food. Ham, lamb, and hot cross buns are common treats. These foods have special meanings. They're a tasty part of Easter celebrations. I'll admit, we don't always stick with traditional Easter foods.  We have sometimes grilled steak or ribs if the weather has been nice.

Why do people eat ham or lamb on Easter? These meats have a historical and religious meaning. Serving them is a tradition for many families. It has been going on for hundreds of years.

Easter breads, cakes, and chocolate are so good! Different places have their own special sweets. Easter is the perfect time to enjoy these goodies.

Wrap-up

Easter weaves history, faith, and culture. Cherish its many customs. Decorate eggs, a springtime symbol. Attend church for a religious focus. These actions link us to past generations. Make fresh memories this season. Share a meal with loved ones. Start an Easter egg hunt for kids. These moments build lasting bonds. Easter celebrates hope and new starts. Spring's arrival shows nature's renewal. Easter mirrors this with its themes of rebirth. It is a great time to think of positive change.

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Save Better: Money Hacks That Really Work

Feeling stressed about money and finances? As I sit down to write this, tax day is just around the corner. My husband is busy finishing up our taxes, carefully checking every detail to make sure everything is accurate. We’re lucky that the amount we owe is small this year. It’s a relief because many families are facing much bigger bills or shaking off the stress of unpaid taxes. Looking back, I realize how fortunate we were to save the right amount of money to cover our son's college expenses without needing to take out student loans. That kind of financial planning was a big effort, but it has made a real difference for our family’s future.

Lately, I’ve also been focusing on increasing contributions to one of my retirement funds. It’s easy to overlook this, especially when daily expenses seem pressing, but putting more into a retirement account builds a stronger financial cushion. The more I contribute now, the more my money can grow over time, thanks to compound interest. It’s a simple step that can have long-lasting benefits for your financial stability.

But beyond saving and planning, there are actual hacks—practical, easy-to-do strategies—that can really change your financial life. These techniques can help you cut expenses significantly. For example, negotiating bills or switching to cheaper service providers can save hundreds each year. Shopping with a list, avoiding impulse buys, or using coupons can also make a big difference. These small changes add up, freeing up more money for goals like emergencies, debt repayment, or savings.

On top of that, adopting smart money habits can boost your wealth over time. Cutting unnecessary spending doesn’t just save money; it also helps you build a stronger financial foundation. Paying down high-interest debt, for example, can save hundreds in interest payments. Increasing your savings can provide peace of mind and prepare you for surprises along the way.

These strategies don’t just impact your wallet—they also improve your overall financial well-being. Feeling more in control of your money reduces stress and helps you focus on what really matters. The goal isn’t just to spend less but to make smart choices that support your long-term goals. Whether it’s save for a big purchase, clear debt, or build a safety net, these hacks can put you on a better path.

If you’re ready to take charge of your finances, these tips are a great start. Building good habits today can set you up for a more secure tomorrow. Small changes can lead to big results over time, helping you feel more confident about your financial future. So, are you ready? Let’s jump in and explore some ways you can start improving your money situation today.

Budgeting doesn't have to be a drag

Smart budgeting and spending habits help you identify areas where you can save cash. Knowing where your money goes is the first step to financial freedom.

Tracking every penny might seem annoying, but it's enlightening. Thankfully, I can review expenses through my banking app and my credit card statements.  Knowing where your money goes each month is important. You'll be surprised where you can cut back. You might be spending way too much on coffee, takeout or Amazon.  Seeing these trends helps you make smarter choices.

Needs are essentials: rent, food, transportation. Wants are extras: new clothes, fancy gadgets, eating out. It's easy to confuse the two. Learning to tell them apart is key. Ask yourself: Do I really need this, or do I just want it? Prioritize needs. Then, spend carefully on wants.  I used my previous cell phone and my previous laptop for over 10 years. Both had to be replaced as they were no longer supported and did not run well.

Embrace Minimalism: Less Stuff, Less Spending

Minimalism is about owning less. Declutter your home. Get rid of things you don't need. The less you own, the less you need to buy. This helps you spend less on unnecessary items. Plus, a clutter-free home is calming. It creates a relaxed living space.  I've been decluttering my clothing; getting rid of items that don't fit, aren't worn, or just simply no longer serve me.  Rather than buying cheap clothes, I invested in new clothing items through Stitch Fix. I didn't think I'd like someone else picking out my clothes but I've been happy with the two "fixes" so far. It helped me learn how to pick out items for myself that are less expensive but still good quality.

Food costs can sneak up on you. Smart planning and shopping can lead to big savings.

Grocery shopping and other food savings.

Coupons are your friends. We shop Kroger and we can clip coupons that go on our Kroger card.  Don't be afraid of store brands. They're often just as good as name brands. But, they cost less. We buy store brands often but, depending on the sale, my husband has occasionally found it cheaper to buy a name brand instead of store brand.

Eating out is a budget killer. Cooking at home is way cheaper. My husband and I are so busy that it has been months since we've gone out to dinner together.  I go out once a month with my girl friends in Lewis Center. If you do enjoy eating out, look for coupons either through mailers like ValPak or in an app if your favorite restaurant has one.

Set Up Automatic Transfers to Savings Accounts

Set up automatic transfers from your checking account to your savings account. Even small amounts add up over time. Treat it like a bill you have to pay. Set it and forget it. You'll be surprised how quickly your savings grow.  I've been diverting a small percentage of my monthly paycheck to my savings account.  Huntington offers "Money Scout" and this has resulted in more savings.  I have a scheduled transfer setup to send money to Edward Jones for one of my retirement funds.

Wrap-Up

We explored many money-saving hacks today. From optimizing your budget to slashing housing costs. Conquering food expenses to automating your savings. Cutting down on transportation to embracing minimalism. Implementing these hacks can change your financial life. You can radically reduce expenses. You can also accelerate wealth building. You'll also improve your overall financial well-being. Start implementing these hacks today. Commit to a financially healthier future!

Unlock God’s Power Daily: Practical Ways to Live Empowered by the Holy Spirit

You’ve Got God’s Power: How to Use It Daily

There’s a truth that’s both simple and profound: You have God’s power living within you. It’s not some distant idea or a rare gift reserved for a select few—it’s a daily reality for every believer. The same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you (Romans 8:11). That means you are empowered beyond measure to face life’s challenges, grow in faith, and live with purpose.

But how do we tap into that power every single day? How do we move from knowing this truth to living it out in practical ways?

Here are four ways to use God’s power daily and see His presence transform your life:

1. Start Your Day in Prayer and Surrender

The foundation for using God’s power is staying connected to Him. When you begin each day by inviting God into your thoughts, plans, and challenges, you open yourself to His strength. Prayer isn’t just asking for help; it’s surrendering control and trusting God’s wisdom and power to guide you.
Try a simple prayer each morning: “Lord, I surrender this day to You. Fill me with Your Spirit and use Your power through me.”

2. Stay Rooted in God’s Word

God’s power is revealed and renewed through His promises in Scripture. When you read and meditate on the Bible daily, you remind yourself of who God is, who you are in Him, and the victory you have through His Spirit. The Word is living and active—it shapes your mindset and fills you with courage.
Make time to read a verse or passage each day and ask God to speak to your heart through it.

3. Walk by the Spirit, Not by the Flesh

The power you have is a supernatural power. It’s the Spirit of God working in and through you to overcome fear, doubt, and temptation. Walking by the Spirit means choosing to respond to life’s situations not by your own strength or feelings but by trusting God’s guidance and power.
When you feel weak or overwhelmed, pause and ask the Holy Spirit to fill you anew. Let His power take over your thoughts and actions.

4. Serve Others with Love and Boldness

One of the most tangible ways to use God’s power is by serving others. God’s power doesn’t make you passive; it empowers you to love boldly, forgive freely, and encourage generously. When you step out in kindness or share your faith, you reflect the power of God to those around you.
Look for opportunities daily to be a blessing—whether in small acts of kindness or courageous conversations.

Remember, God’s power isn’t just for miracles and big moments. It’s for your everyday life—the daily decisions, struggles, and joys. When you rely on His Spirit, you become more than you imagine, equipped to overcome challenges, grow in character, and live with purpose.

You’ve got God’s power. Use it daily, and watch how ordinary moments become extraordinary with His presence.

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April 9, 2025 Life Update: Personal Growth, Reflections & Milestones

Hi Friends,

It's been a while since I did a little life update.  Life has been incredibly busy with good things.

My son's dead SUV that I wrote about back in How to Turn Tough Times into Moments of Gratitude was finally hauled away this week.  I was at my Columbus office so I watched it through the Ring app on my phone and took a screenshot.  It was bittersweet - that's the vehicle my son learned to drive in but it is nice to have full use of the driveway again.

Powerlifting training has been my focus at the gym.  As I wrote in The Story of a Struggling Powerlifter ,  I sought coaching help for bench press and there has been improvement with no failed reps as of late.  I do one Crossfit class a week to see friends & keep up my skills. I'm trying to increase my step count as we're going to be starting a habit challenge at the gym soon and I expect step count will be part of it. I am getting more steps through outdoor walking, treadmill walking, elliptical, or just doing chores around the house.  

My son's college graduation is coming up in a few short weeks.  Some days, it feels like he just graduated from high school.  My powerlifting competition is a couple weeks after my son's college graduation.  

Being so busy, I admit to having hit a bit of a writer's block so new blog content has slowed down.  I have worked on revising some older blog posts as well as doing more short form scripture related posts on social media.  My hope is that perhaps life will slow down after a busy April & May but that remains to be seen.  

While life feels a bit overwhelming, I know that God does not give me more than I can handle since I should be leaning on Him for strength.

God Bless,

Jodi

Spring Fever: Symptoms, Causes, and How to Beat the Blues

Ah, spring! The birds are singing, flowers are blooming, and… you're feeling totally drained? You're not alone! That weird mix of excitement and exhaustion is often called "spring fever." It's that sluggish, restless feeling when winter finally fades. Spring fever is more than just a feeling; it's a real thing! It has roots in our bodies and minds. Getting a grip on these things can assist you in handling it and enjoy the season.

Understanding Spring Fever: More Than Just a Feeling

Spring fever isn't a medical diagnosis. It's more of a general term. It describes the changes in energy, mood, and drive that people have when spring rolls around.  While researching this topic, I came across an interesting sermon transcript about Spring Fever by Jerry Depoy.  The sermon related to Genesis 8 Verses 1-18 about Noah, the Ark, the animals, and the floods.  

What Exactly is Spring Fever?

Think of spring fever as your body waking up from a long nap. The days get longer. The weather warms up. Your body needs to adjust to these changes. This adjustment can lead to feeling tired, unmotivated, or even a little blah. It's a temporary shift, but it can be a bummer.

The Science Behind Spring Fever: Why You Feel This Way

So, why does spring make you feel so strange? It's all about biology and how your body reacts to the environment. Sunlight, hormones, and temperature all play a role.

The Role of Sunlight and Vitamin D

Sunlight is a big deal! It helps your body make vitamin D. It also affects two important chemicals in your brain: serotonin and melatonin. Serotonin boosts your mood. Melatonin helps you sleep. More sunlight can mean more serotonin and less melatonin. This shift can mess with your energy levels and make you feel out of whack. Imagine how Noah and everyone on the Ark that experienced the floods must have felt!

Hormonal Shifts: A Spring Awakening

Think of your hormones as tiny messengers. They tell your body what to do. Sunlight throws those messengers into chaos. It impacts your feelings of energy and motivation. It is like your body is waking up, stretching, and trying to find its rhythm.

The Temperature Effect: Metabolic Changes

Warmer weather changes your metabolism. It also changes your blood pressure. Your body has to work harder to stay cool. This can lead to fatigue and make you feel like you're moving in slow motion.

Symptoms of Spring Fever: Are You Experiencing It?

How do you know if you have spring fever? Look out for these common signs.

Common Physical Symptoms

• Lethargy: Feeling tired and sluggish.
• Fatigue: More than just being tired; it's a deep exhaustion.
• Headaches: Those pesky head pains that come and go.
• Lowered immunity: Catching every cold that floats around.

Psychological and Emotional Indicators

• Mood swings: Feeling happy one minute and grumpy the next.
• Restlessness: An urge to move or change something.
• Irritability: Getting annoyed easily by small things.
• A longing for change: A desire to shake things up in your life.

Beating the Springtime Slump: Practical Tips to Regain Energy

Don't let spring fever get you down! Here are some simple ways to fight back and feel better.

Embrace the Sunlight (Responsibly)

Get some sun! It helps your body make vitamin D. But don't overdo it. Too much sun can be harmful. Aim for 15-20 minutes of sunlight a day, especially in the morning.

Revamp Your Diet: Spring Cleaning for Your Body

Eat fresh, healthy foods. Spring is the perfect time to load up on fruits and veggies. They can give you a natural energy boost. Lighten up your meals. Avoid heavy, greasy foods that can weigh you down.

Stay Hydrated: The Elixir of Life

Drink plenty of water! Dehydration can make you feel tired and sluggish. Keep a water bottle with you and sip on it throughout the day.

Exercise and Outdoor Activities

Get moving! Exercise is a great way to boost your energy and mood. Take a walk, go for a bike ride, or do some gardening. Being outside in nature can be extra helpful.

Prioritize Sleep: Rest and Recovery

Get enough sleep! It might be tempting to stay up later with the longer days, but don't. Aim for 7-8 hours of sleep each night. Consistent sleep patterns can make a big difference.

Spring Fever and Mental Wellness: Taking Care of Your Mind

Spring fever isn't just about your body. It also affects your mind. Taking care of your mental health is key.

Mindfulness and Meditation

Try mindfulness. Focus on the present moment. Meditation can help you relax and reduce stress. There are many apps and online resources that can guide you.

Social Connection: Reconnecting with Others

Connect with people. Spend time with friends and family. Social interaction can combat feelings of isolation and boost your mood. Plan a picnic, go to a park, or just chat with a loved one.

Setting Realistic Goals

Set small, achievable goals. Don't try to do too much at once. Breaking tasks into smaller steps can make them feel less overwhelming. Celebrate your progress along the way.

Wrap-Up

Spring fever is a real thing. It is caused by changes in sunlight, hormones, and temperature. It can leave you feeling tired, restless, and unmotivated. The good news is you can manage it! Get some sun, eat healthy, stay hydrated, exercise, and prioritize sleep. Take care of your mind by practicing mindfulness, connecting with others, and setting realistic goals. View spring as a chance for fresh starts. Take it as an opportunity for growth, despite the challenges.

Resources

Spring Fever Sermon Transcript by Jerry Depoy

Biblia Genesis 8:1-18

Ryan Robinson Blogging Tools

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Lifelong Learning: The Secret to Staying Relevant and Thriving

Liz is getting into powerlifting. You might remember her from The Story of a Struggling Powerlifter. She's working hard to learn the basics. Powerlifting has three main moves. They are the squat, bench press, and deadlift. These lifts test total body strength. Right now, Liz is focused on form. She wants to do each lift just right. Good form keeps her safe. It also helps her lift more weight later.

Each lift has key points to learn. The squat involves bending at the knees and hips. The bench press is pushing weight up while lying down. The deadlift means lifting weight off the floor. Liz is also learning how to breathe right. Proper breathing and bracing make her core strong. This gives her a solid base for lifting. Strong bracing helps prevent injuries. It allows her to move bigger weight safely. She is excited to see how strong she can get.

The Benefits of Lifelong Learning

Lifelong learning can help you grow, both personally and in your career. Staying curious and always wanting to learn is more valuable than ever. What are the advantages?

Enhanced Career Opportunities and Advancement

Want a better job or a raise? Continuous learning can help you get there. By learning new skills, you can become more valuable to employers. You might even get a promotion. Think of it as investing in yourself; the more you learn, the more you earn. Many companies value employees who show a willingness to learn and adapt.

Increased Adaptability and Resilience

Life throws curveballs. Learning new skills helps you adapt to change and bounce back from challenges. If you lose your job, you can use your new skills to find another one. If a new technology comes along, you can learn how to use it. This adaptability makes you more resilient. It equips you to handle whatever comes your way.

Improved Cognitive Function and Mental Agility

Learning isn't just good for your career, it's great for your brain, too. It can boost your memory, improve your problem-solving skills, and keep your mind sharp. Think of your brain like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. Lifelong learning is like a workout for your brain, keeping it healthy and agile.

Cultivating a Growth Mindset for Continuous Learning

Having the right mindset is key. A growth mindset means believing that your abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work. It's a way to look at learning and personal development. How can you adopt this mindset?

Embracing Challenges and Seeing Failure as an Opportunity

Don't be afraid of challenges. They're chances to learn and grow. When you face a tough problem, don't give up. Instead, see it as a puzzle to solve. View mistakes as learning experiences; they are not reflections of your worth. Every failure brings you closer to success.

Developing Curiosity and a Love for Learning

Stay curious and ask questions. Nurture your passion for acquiring knowledge and skills. Find subjects that interest you, and explore them deeply. Read books, watch documentaries, and listen to podcasts. The more curious you are, the more you'll want to learn.

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Self-Doubt

Do you ever think, "I'm not smart enough to learn this?" It's time to ditch those negative thoughts. Replace them with positive affirmations. Believe in your ability to learn. Break down complex tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. Celebrate small victories to build confidence.

Practical Strategies for Incorporating Lifelong Learning

How can you make lifelong learning a part of your everyday life? It might be easier than you think. Here are some practical tips.

Setting Clear Learning Goals and Creating a Plan

What do you want to learn? Be specific and set clear goals. Create a plan with timelines and milestones. Break down your goals into smaller, achievable steps. Having a structured approach will keep you on track. You're more likely to succeed if you know where you're headed.

Utilizing Online Resources and Educational Platforms

The internet is full of learning opportunities. Take advantage of online courses, tutorials, and other digital tools. Platforms like Coursera, edX, and Khan Academy offer a wide range of subjects. These resources can help you learn at your own pace, from anywhere in the world.

Networking and Learning from Others

Connect with people who share your interests. Join online forums, attend workshops, and go to industry events. Talk to people who are experts in their fields. Learning from others can give you new perspectives and insights. It will enrich your learning journey.

Overcoming Barriers to Lifelong Learning

What's stopping you from learning? Let's tackle some common obstacles. There are solutions available.

Time Constraints and Balancing Priorities

Life gets busy. How can you find time to learn? Schedule learning into your calendar. Treat it like any other important appointment. Break learning into small chunks. Even 15 minutes a day can make a difference. Prioritize learning over less important activities.

Fear of Failure or Feeling Overwhelmed

Learning something new can be intimidating. Don't let fear hold you back. Start with small steps and celebrate your progress. Remember, everyone makes mistakes. Focus on what you're learning, not on being perfect. Embrace the learning process.  Just a few days ago, I came across an article that explained how I can create bulk pins for Pinterest using a spreadsheet template an uploading a CSV.  Once I got in a groove with the required fields, I filled out the spreadsheet and uploading it scheduling double digit pins in less time than it would have taken me for me to create 4-5 pins manually.

The Importance of Soft Skills and Adaptability in the Future Workforce

In the future, soft skills like critical thinking, communication, and collaboration will be essential. These skills will help you work with others, solve problems, and adapt to change. While technical skills are important, soft skills will set you apart. They make you a well-rounded and valuable employee.

Wrap-Up

Lifelong learning isn't just a trend, it's a necessity for thriving in today's world. It enhances your career, boosts your mental agility, and makes you more adaptable to change. By cultivating a growth mindset and overcoming barriers, you can unlock your full potential. So, embrace the journey of continuous learning. Take action towards your learning goals, and remember that the power of learning can transform your life.

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